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It’s Safe to Let Your Light Shine

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We are drawing on the compassionate and timeless wisdom of The Gabriel Messages to provide insight and inspiration that we can apply every day of our lives.

This small but mighty message from Archangel Gabriel can help us all in our walk through the world.

The Gabriel Message Card for this Week

It’s Safe to Let Your Light Shine!

Shanta GabrielThis is the shortest of the Gabriel Messages, and yet one of the most profound. Every time I read it, my heart is blasted with Archangelic Wisdom and Divine inspiration for an empowered life. This is a safety affirmation that can be used at any time to bring you a sense of Grace and Protection.

My long-term mentor in Hawaii, Nancy Rubin, first introduced me to the concept of safety affirmations in 1988. They have been very helpful in making me more embodied in my physical body and the world.

For years I had never felt safe to be in my body. It really did not feel as though the Earth was a benevolent or safe place for me to live. Even though I knew I had volunteered to be on this planet during these challenging times of awakening, throughout my life it had felt as though I was an alien species. I even began questioning the wisdom of staying in my body.

I was coached to begin saying safety affirmations. I began with, “It’s safe to be in my body.” That felt surprisingly good, so I started branching out. “It’s safe to be who I truly am. It’s safe to speak my truth.” These really started encouraging me. Then finally I received the guidance from Archangel Gabriel, “It is safe to let your Light shine!”

This was a huge revelation, because I saw that in protecting myself I did not allow the true essence of my most Divine, authentic Self to radiate into the world. It does not matter what past-life history made me feel that it was not safe to show that most vulnerable side of me. It became most important for me to shift into allowing the true radiance of Divine Light to be expressed in the world through my being.

It has taken many years to do this. I wish I could say it was an immediate turnaround. Old patterns can take some time to let go of. However, what I discovered is that when I allowed myself to reveal and express my most authentic loving nature, the happier I became.

The times we are living in require us to open up into a greater realm of awareness. We need to remember that it is not only safe to let our Light shine, it is imperative to the evolution of consciousness on the Earth. The more Divine Light that shines into the world, the more the planet and all beings who share this world are elevated.

Divine Light carries the expression of the love and intelligence of God that we each need so urgently. In order for all to live in true Harmony and for Peace to prevail on Earth, please know that it is truly safe to let your beautiful Light shine! Here is my prayer for us all:

Divine Presence,

Thank you for assisting me to become a radiant Beacon of Divine Light in the world. May I relax into my true, most loving self and allow this Light of Pure Love to shine through me to others. May I truly know that Well-being is my only reality and that I am safe, because I am being carried by a Love that never ends. I know in my heart that I am being held in Wings of Divine Light as I share this time with others.

Help me to be the one who has the courage to smile first. May I be willing to walk through my world with an open heart. I ask to demonstrate loving-kindness no matter who I am interacting with.

May all beings know that we are truly connected as family. May all of humanity open their hearts to allow their most Eternal, Empowered, Authentic, Divine Nature to radiate Light and Love within and around them at all times. And may we also be great receivers, acting in Trust and Wisdom, as we allow ourselves to be filled with the greatest Light the world has ever known. So be it. Be it so. Amen.

Shanta Gabriel
October 15, 2017
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The Gabriel Messages Book #36

It’s safe to let your Light shine!

Dear One,

At the very heart of you is the pure light of God. This light has the ability to change your thinking and change your outer world. It is a light which, like a flame when fanned, can fill every cell, every fiber of your being and transform you. Fanning this flame means giving the light within you a time of focused attention.

Your imagination holds the key to transforming your life. What you believe can be achieved. Even before you believe something is true, you can allow the possibility to be there and imagine it to be true. Wherever you focus your attention, your life-force energy will follow.

Practice:

Imagine the light within you shining brightly. Give yourself a moment to inhale deeply, and as you exhale imagine a golden light beam moving from the base of your spine into the earth. As you continue to breathe, feel this deep connection to the earth relax you and provide a strong base within you.

Now, bring your attention to your heart center, the energy field in the middle of your chest. Imagine there is a glowing flame of light burning there. As you breathe in, this flame grows larger and brighter. As you breathe out, the light from this flame begins to fill your body.

Continue to breathe and imagine this light expanding behind your shoulders and down your back, feel it filling every organ and every cell. This is the light of pure spirit, the healing love of God. This light fills you with the Divine presence and radiates from you in waves of love.

Now imagine this light shining from you and blessing your house, the area where you live and the planet. Imagine this loving light blessing all the people you meet today. It’s a good feeling to send light to others as well as to yourself. This light promotes healing energy in the world around you and in your own body. Peace begins within the heart of each person individually. God’s light, shining from the heart of each person on Earth, would bring peace to the planet and transform the world.

It’s safe to let your light shine. Maybe when you were a child, it did not feel safe to be who you really were inside — innocent, trusting and filled with the light of love. But the consciousness of the people in the world is beginning to change. Now people everywhere are turning to spirituality as the only place where they can find true peace and happiness. They are longing for more sweetness and love in their lives. So the Angels say, “Fear not.” When you shine your love light on the world, you will be a loving presence. You don’t have to say anything. Your energy alone will have a transforming effect.

The visualization of the flame of love in your heart shining out to the people of Earth is very potent. No matter what is happening around you, keep this visualization moving through you. It takes a little practice, but it will have a healing effect even if you can’t see it. Just your willingness to imagine it is enough to create a light shining from within you. This light is that which connects you and everyone around you to the infinite power of Divine Love.

The master Jesus suggested that your light should not be hidden under a bushel. Let your light shine forth to bless the world, every area in your life and bring the true Divine Radiance of God into the awakening of new life you are all experiencing.

Remember your message from Archangel Gabriel for today,

It’s safe to let your Light shine!

Shanta Gabriel
for Archangel Gabriel
October 15, 2017
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7 Ways to Become a more Authentic Person

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Via Crystal Jackson

Maybe I’m just a product of my generation, but I read self-help books, and I work on my “baggage.”

I know someone somewhere reading this may think that my generation, and the one following—the millennials—are a little too self-centered for our own good.

And, people who think that may also consider “me-centered” as selfish, disrespectful, and rude.

I get it. This is the generation that made reality television a thing and has elevated people to stardom who may not have much talent or skill. I can really see why an older generation would look at us and shake their heads.

But, here’s what’s wrong with that line of thinking:

As young women, we were raised not to think of ourselves. We were told to put others first and take care of ourselves last. Every message we got growing up taught us that our value lies in who we are to other people.

Our perceived worth lies in those relationships, and in how we look, how we present ourselves, and how quietly and respectfully we interact with the world around us. We’re told that we should keep our legs together, but not be a prude. We should plan our dream wedding, our two children (one of each sex), and we should clock in and out of church the way we do work. We should cook and clean and take care of our children, even if we’re holding down full-time jobs. And, we should just pass the man the beer.

We should sacrifice for our families and never make time for ourselves. And, we shouldn’t love our bodies. Because how will we feel bad enough to buy the stuff that the advertisers need us to keep buying? We need to look younger, be firmer, thinner, have more cleavage, display our curves—but not too much—or we’re asking for it.

And as for young men? The message is to “man up, “grow a pair.” And, “boys don’t cry.” After all, you’re the man of the house, the breadwinner. Take care of your families. Play sport. Do manly things. Drink beer. If you give a hug, accompany it with a manly back slap.

Don’t express feelings…except anger. Anger is an okay feeling to show. Don’t cry. And, it’s okay to sleep around and equally okay to hold a double standard that says women shouldn’t. Rape culture is the locker room talk they many men up with and the talk on the street, in classrooms, and at home. Catcalling and ass grabbing and “she’s asking for it.” Be competitive, work harder, and chase women.

But, we grow up, and a lot of us see that what we were taught to be and who we actually are, are vastly different things.

Yes, we start turning the focus in on ourselves. But, our focus isn’t about being selfish or narcissistic. Instead, we work to undo the things that we’ve learned have hurt us. We investigate our thoughts and feelings and trace them back to the source, to those messages that told us who we are and who we should strive to be, and we start to dismantle them.

We take better care of ourselves so that we can take care of our families and contribute to society as full, functional, happy, and healthy human beings, rather than automatons who function purely on what we were told to think and feel and do.

We’re not about being spectacularly selfish. Instead, we’re trying to become the people we really are, and we’re doing it when society tells us to be quiet, sit down, and follow the crowd. We’re the social justice warriors and the dreamers and the people with the vision to know that the world has the capacity to be a better, happier, and more peaceful place.

By un-learning all of the lessons that taught us that we weren’t enough, we learn how to give of ourselves in a way that makes us whole, rather than depletes our precious energy.

But how? How do we begin to dismantle the self we were told to be, and become the ones that we are?

We listen to our intuition. Our intuition is that quiet sense of what’s right for us and what’s not. It may not seem rational or logical, but it always knows what we need. Sometimes, we have to be quiet and still inside of ourselves to truly be able to hear it.
We stop listening to that critical voice in our heads. Yes, that one. The one that says we’re not enough or we’re too much. The one that undermines our confidence and reinforces our fears. That voice is the voice of others who have spent their lives judging and assigning roles and spreading fear. Maybe it’s the voice of authority figures or family members or our culture. It says no and don’t and can’t, and it doesn’t serve our souls.
We make a list of the priorities of our lives on one side and our actual daily schedule on the other. We compare the lists. Are the things we want in life, our deepest priorities and dreams, showing up in what we actually do on a daily basis? If not, there are changes we need to make.
We need to pay attention to cognitive dissonance. If we only ever believe the things we want to and the only truth that we hear is the one we like hearing, there’s something wrong. We need to be equipped to take in new information. We can’t adapt if we’re not willing to look at our own behaviors and call out the undesirable ones. We can’t make the changes we need if we don’t stay open to the world around us and the feedback we’re getting, not only from the people around us, but by the experiences the universe sends our way. We need to make sure that we are receptive to the truth even if it’s unpleasant for us and requires hard work to make changes.
We can seek professional help. There’s a stigma around that statement. Even I could hear it echoing around the words “professional help” as I wrote them. But, we don’t treat ourselves for medical problems, typically. And, we let mechanics work on our cars. We trust professionals for a variety of tasks, and yet we’re so reluctant to reach out and say that we need help to work through our baggage.
We can learn to accept ourselves. I just listened to Sounds True’s Self-Acceptance Summit, and I loved every moment of it! The overriding message was that we need to accept who we are, to be body positive, and to really practice the love, compassion, and forgiveness that we so easily give to others with ourselves. We won’t be happy when we lose 20 pounds or when we run that marathon or when we get the promotion we want or have the next child. We won’t be happy as long as we’re chasing a set of circumstances rather than loving our lives as they are right now.
We can meditate every day, even if it’s only for five minutes. Get quiet. Get still. Listen. How can we know who we are if we never stop and listen?
We’re not a selfish generation, at least not entirely. So many of us are working hard to dismantle the armor we were told to wear so that we can find our truest, most vulnerable selves.

We’re removing the layers and finding others. At the heart of it all is this love for our lives and for humanity that can’t get out as long as we’re wrapped in layers of should and can’t and don’t.

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Author: Crystal Jackson
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Editor: Lieselle Davidson
Copy Editor: Sara Kärpänen

Arcturian Group Message 9/24/17

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SEPTEMBER 24, 2017

Dear ones, the message for these changing times is an assurance that all is on track and the world has not lost its way. Rather, it is the obsolete belief system that is losing its way even as many struggle to hold it in place. False concepts and beliefs can only dissipate in the presence of ever increasing energies of Truth where there is nothing to sustain them.

Change for many has been unpleasant and not in alignment with the material sense of comfort and security. However, what is taking place is necessary for Gaia as well as all upon her in order to clear the multiple layers of dense energy formed of duality and separation that she has stored and carried through centuries.

Incoming souls often choose to experience some sort of difficult or life changing event during their lifetime on earth. This is a free-will, pre-birth choice made for purposes of learning something necessary for soul growth that perhaps they have long been ready for but have not learned in easier lifetimes.

Soul groups as well will often choose to experience something together in order to clear and resolve a collective karma. You are witnessing this now as certain groups around the world experience great loss and pain. The very things that seem so wrong according to three dimensional thinking, are often necessary and perfect in order to tip the balance forward for a soul or soul group.

This does not mean you stand back and say; “Oh well, they chose this.”, but means you have a better understanding of world situations and from that place of awareness are able to send light and help without adding negative energy to the situation.

The old no longer holds the power it once did because collective consciousness is becoming increasingly evolved. Individuals are awakening and beginning to acknowledge and reclaim their innate power. Those ignorant of their true identity as spiritual beings continue allowing others to take their power–governments, churches, experts, corporations, and individuals who live from a righteous sense of empowerment disguised as knowing what is best for them.

In spite of appearances, love is becoming more and more prevalent on earth as individuals awaken into a new sense of connection and move beyond concepts of separation. This is the hidden gift of “disasters”. Love is being felt and expressed by many who do not understand that their desire to help others is actually love. Love flows in forms relevant to the attained state of consciousness of an individual who may himself simply see his actions as practical responses to some situation.

There are those who always step in where they see a need, “ordinary” people providing clothing, food, and material goods while never considering their actions to be love. Others help on emotional and mental levels, providing guidance and support. This is love (activities of oneness) regardless of what it is called. The intense needs of so many at this time is serving to draw the world more deeply into love through service which is why many choose pre-birth, to experience or be a part of some catastrophic event.

As you already know, the more illumined an attained state of consciousness is, the deeper and more clear is the person’s realization of love as being the connecting energy between the many within the ONE. Spiritual evolution is simply a journey in which every soul moves either quickly or slowly into increasingly higher levels of this awareness. All who in some way selflessly serve Gaia and her life forms are loving, even if they are only able to see it as; “Doing their job.” or “Being practical” etc. at this point.

There are some (often well known people desirous of publicity) whose present state of consciousness only allows them to perform actions of service primarily for purposes of receiving praise and attention from others, with no real concern for the recipients, be they people, plants or animals. However even this low level of service can be the beginning point from which will unfold a deeper sense of service as love.

It is important to understand the difference between loving and enabling. Many still believe that loving means doing whatever it takes to make someone else happy, often at the expense of their own personal power and growth. Other individual’s situations may very well be a part of their chosen pre-birth contract for learning, clearing, and moving beyond the active energies of some old cellular memory.

Love is having one’s hand ready to grasp the hand of another who is reaching out for additional help to their own efforts, but love is not a reaching down into the gutter in order to lift up someone out who is making no personal effort or even seeing any need to be elsewhere. Individuals must themselves choose (consciously or unconsciously) to leave a “gutter consciousness” they themselves have created. If, in self righteous zeal a person tries to force another into a state of consciousness they may not yet be ready for, they remove the lesson and become an enabler.

Many students of truth remain confused on this point because in their sincere effort to become loving they try to fix, heal, or change everyone struggling and not seeing the world as they do. This is done through words (proselytizing) or actions (stepping in and changing things), or simply through sympathetic alignment–all of which will add energy to the situation.

Love often requires a person to step aside and allow another to fall flat on their face which can be very difficult when the other is a loved one. Never forget that the person’s true nature is Divine no matter what the appearances may be. This is the higher work and if the other person is receptive or ready for change, your loving realization of his true nature can shift his awareness, allowing him to see and be more receptive to the bigger picture.

Always trust your intuition in these types of situations–“Does this person really want help, or is he simply looking for someone to ease his way back into his chosen lifestyle?”. There are certain individuals who thrive on being “victims” because it brings the attention they crave with no effort other than to keep repeating and elaborating the details of their victim-hood to anyone who will listen which perfectly serves to produce more victim situations. You are creators.

When another is sincerely trying to grow and change their life for the better and reaches out, that is when you firmly grasp their hand and assist them in whatever ways you are able (physically, mentally emotionally and spiritually) to where they themselves are choosing to be. It may simply be guiding them to them to where they can get the help they seek.

It is difficult to determine these things strictly from observation and is where your intuitive gifts must come into play. You are Lightworkers, which means that you are evolved enough to engage with the world from levels of Light and awareness, not according to three dimensional concepts of love and service which often include a surrender of personal power.

Love never means being a door mat. Love is never about attempting to mold yourselves into the holy card image of a “saint” with eyes lifted to heaven and hands folded meekly. Love often means taking a stand, and saying “No” when it is appropriate. Love allows others to experience and learn from their mistakes. Love is observant and knows the difference between a want and a need.

Love is a recognition of every individual’s true Divine nature regardless of how far from that they may appear. Love is being willing to step in with guidance when asked, but is also the ability to step back when not asked. Love is being firm if your child in his immaturity is making bad choices, but love also allows him to experience the consequences of a bad choice. Love is the realization of oneness on all levels-physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Love knows that all life forms express the One life.

You are and can only ever be love because love is the energy that flows in, as, and through all things. Love is not an emotion although it often expresses through the emotions. Love is the Divine Engine that is God with all Its parts functioning in perfectly order infinitely by law–manifesting in the physical as the human heart.

We are the Arcturian Group 9/24/17

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Gaia is ascending along with all who are prepared for the shift into higher dimensional energy – Marilyn Raffaele

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SEPTEMBER 10, 2017

Dear ones, we come today to speak of love and the ramifications of its denial and suppression. Love is the cohesive energy of all things and is omnipresent, but until realized and acknowledged as such, can appear to be nonexistent. Never forget that you are creators.

The world holds a multitude of concepts regarding love, all reflective of varying belief systems. However, even the most dense and unawake state of consciousness cannot change the fact that love is and can only be all there is. Love is the energetic glue that binds all living things together within ONE whole.

This is the reason love is sought on all levels by all souls even in its most distorted forms and often through any means. Even the terrorist believes he is making the world a better place for those who agree with him. Everyone seeks the acceptance and love of oneness that lies innate within, but is only able to interpret this inner yearning according to their attained level of awareness.

Gaia is ascending along with all who are prepared for the shift into higher dimensional energy that has begun. Gaia is a living soul, consciousness, who has lovingly served all upon her with gifts of beauty, abundance, and love. Because much of mankind continues to consider Gaia to be simply dirt, with resources to be misused and abused for personal gain, she has chosen and is ready to make her own ascension.

Fires and floods are some of the ways Gaia has of clearing many layers of old dense energy reflective of spiritual ignorance. She has carried them for eons and is choosing to release them. She, as well as all upon her, cannot carry old and dense energy into that which is higher and lighter, thus the need for the releasing and clearing of cellular memory so many are experiencing at this time.

All mankind must realize that the planet was never created for people to selfishly use and abuse. The idea of “dominion over” was the result of many mistranslations of the word “shepherding” long ago. It is time for all to understand that everyone, all life forms as well as Gaia herself, are in and of the One Divine Consciousness while never excluding self from this totality through some false sense of unworthiness.

It is a time of change for everyone, for the awakened as well as the un-awakened. Long established manifestations of duality and separation are being exposed and dissolved by the ever increasing presence of high dimensional frequencies. Light will always serve to expose the shadow much as the shining of a flashlight into dark corners illuminates what was previously unseen.

Personal tragedy is often the only way some people will wake up and shift out of a comfortable but un-aware state of consciousness. You are witnessing this with the the fires and floods. Weather events need not always be so destructive, but because humans are ignorant of their creative abilities, they elaborate, discuss, and fill the atmosphere with fear and dire predictions whenever these occasions arise. Remember always–you are creators.

There will be no destructive weather conditions once universal consciousness is enlightened with the truth of oneness between each other and God for the energetic source and substance of these things (the belief in separation from peace, harmony, completeness etc. ) will no longer exist. The idea of destructive weather does not exist in Divine Consciousness.

All spiritually ready must let go of their outmoded but comfortable false belief system. Wake up calls can be very painful, but are often necessary in order to rouse a reluctant soul into the next phase of his spiritual journey. All on earth came to learn, spiritually grow, and assist in the world’s ascension not to simply rest back in the illusions of personal sense.

Some (not everyone) presently suffering from great loss lived from a sense of separation believing themselves to be better than, less than, more evolved, more worthy, etc. than everyone around them. To suddenly find themselves in the same situation as those they felt superior or inferior to, is providing profound attitude adjustments and spiritual growth for those who would not of otherwise been receptive to ideas of connection and oneness.

You are witnessing the dissolution of many forms of old energy and are beginning to understand and accept that only by allowing change can the world ascend into its higher reality. We speak of these things in order that you can more fully understand that everything taking place on earth right now is a part of this process.

Hold your Light and flow this Light to Gaia and all who live upon her, for Light is the frequency that dissolves the shadow. Be the Light.

What is this Light we speak of and how do we send it? Light is the manifestation of high frequency energy. Divine Consciousness, Source, is pure diamond Light unable to be viewed with human eyes. The closer a soul gets to vibrating as its Divine Self, the faster and higher (lighter) the vibration. As you become ever more enlightened, your whole energy field begins to vibrate with lighter and brighter colors.

As your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual bodies begin to vibrate with increasingly higher frequencies, the slower, heavier, vibrations become easily recognizable in comparison which is why certain places, people, books, films, foods, etc. that you may have always enjoyed, suddenly no longer resonate in the same way.

To send Light means acknowledging the true nature of another no matter how deeply it may be hidden. To hold the Light means resting in the Light of your true self. When you do this or send Light to a person or place, visualize golden/white Light. Have no specific purpose other than to send and enfold another with high resonating Light because Light is conscious and knows what is needed far better than some human concept. Light is not sent to fix something but rather to illuminate and release the hidden perfection already present.

Be open and receptive. You may become aware of colors or a crystalline effect. Different energies appear with different colors. If more love is needed you may become aware of rose, pink colors. If healing of some sort is needed, you may become aware of aquamarine/greens. Allow the visualization to unfold without trying to “make something happen” and always with the intention to serve in the highest and best way for all involved.

Send Light to the so called “leaders” and authority figures of the world. Send it to all those who are suffering whether it be of their own making or from circumstances seemingly beyond their control. Visualize and send Light to Gaia and all her kingdoms, recognizing and acknowledging their Divinity.

Be the Light in every conversation and activity regardless of how seemingly mundane through the realization that all activity is spiritual activity, none more spiritual than another. Live, move, and have your being in and as who and what you really are. This is healing work and is how you bring more Light to a world hungry for it. .

Light work does not require you to engage in rigorous activities and thought taking other than pure intention and an active resting in a consciousness of truth. Rites and rituals were necessary at one time and still are for those new to energy and awakening, but you who are drawn to these messages have arrived. Rites and rituals only serve to keep one in a sense of separation.

There is no harm with the small rituals you love, like lighting candles, holding favorite crystals etc. but a false sense of separation is kept alive when individuals believe they need these things in order to be spiritual or to do their inner work and that it cannot be accomplished without them.

The head of an arrow often generates heat and burns. Regardless of appearances in your lives hold fast to that which you are, will be, and always have been– Divine Beings having human experiences. This is why you are on earth at this sacred and powerful time.

This is the work and you are ready for it whether you feel you are or not. You are the hope, the first wave of ascension preparing the way for those following.

With much love, respect, and appreciation for your willingness to experience and grow in order to assist others–

We are the Arcturian Group. 9/10/17

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Images of Unworthiness

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Dear friends, I am Jeshua. I come to remind you of who you are, your strength and your greatness. You are an inexhaustible source of Light that continually refreshes, that grows and expands; an exuberant flow of divine energy. I want to infuse you with this energy and I ask that you allow this energy to flow fully into your mind, your body, your entire life, so that your soul’s energy can express itself here on Earth.

I appeal to you to let go of old and false images of unworthiness. I want to speak to you today about self-esteem and self-empowerment; about daring to stand up and believe in the fire that you carry inside. This fire is your Light; it wants to burn brightly here and now. But each of you has taken in so much false information about who you are and who you should be, that there has been a weakening of your spiritual power and your originality, your uniqueness. At this time in the evolution of humanity, new spiritual forces are being liberated, and that can only happen completely and truly through the people who are now living on Earth. A new time and energy is being born through you and that can only arise in a deeply rooted way if you completely embrace your own worth.

Men and women both have been mislead by society through its traditions and educational processes, so that images of sin, shame, and guilt continue to cling to and live within you all. Life is portrayed as a struggle to prove yourself and a fight to survive. In this tradition, a very limited form of male energy is being posited as being necessary in life, and that position rests essentially on an unstable foundation of fear and the need for control. This form of male energy has for centuries also dominated spirituality. Christian spirituality has become male dominated through the Church, and has thus lost connection with its origin. You are here to restore the Christ energy with its origin; to restore the living heart of it within yourself and to bring that forth and pass it on to others.

I recognize you as my brothers and sisters. You are so dear to me and what saddens me most is to see how you belittle and disparage yourself; how dejected you feel about who you are. Images of sin, shame, and guilt deceive you all. Let us look at how those images play a role in the life of both men and women. In men, these images are impressed into them during their early boyhood education by the emphasis that is placed on performance and competition, and on standing out from others; on being able to stand your ground and being tough and showing your masculinity. Sensitivity and feminine qualities, such as being able to connect and empathize with others, are rejected as being unmanly, as characteristics not belonging to a man. In women, the emphasis is put on not distinguishing oneself, but rather on empathy with others and being prepared to serve others; the caring, giving quality is emphasized.

These two role models are still affecting the male and the female psyche and they present false images. A woman is supposed to find her real value in the giving of herself and in her empathy and caring for others. She thereby loses her own strength and the ability to stand tall, and to take a stance and clearly position herself in the world. But it is only on the basis of a woman claiming her autonomy, her freedom and independence in the world, that the female energy can flow with its true power. If that foundation of autonomy is missing, women become weakened and they do not assume the position and power in the world that should belong to them. The traditional role model for women veils their sharp mind and adventurousness.

In men, it is in a sense the other way around; in the course of their upbringing they are often shielded from their hearts, their sensitivity, and their need to be caring, to love, and to protect. They must distinguish themselves and are forced into an inevitable loneliness, isolation, and the feeling of being lost, which sets them apart from the whole. Sometimes they truly lose their sensitivity and do not dare to give themselves over to the flow of emotions, feelings, and love that is also certainly present in their hearts.

There is a desire in the male soul to also embody the female nature, which is already an intrinsic part of their soul, but men tend to project this desire outside themselves onto women. Women, too, tend to project their desire for power and discernment onto men. But if both sexes cannot find these qualities within themselves, there emerges a painful relationship between men and women. They feel a need for one another, but at the same time there is conflict, because dependency is never a good basis for a truly loving relationship. Both sexes need to make an inner connection with their own male and female powers. These energies belong together; they are like a helix that is entwined around itself. Only together can they grow and flourish.

What happens to the self-esteem of men and women when they have to live up to what are actually such one-dimensional stereotypes of masculinity and femininity? The man often develops a persona or false ego that he must present to the world, because he feels he must prove himself; he must perform and be a man of action. The woman also develops a persona, because she must be charming, nice, helpful, and giving. When both sexes try to show the other side of themselves, there usually arise feelings of guilt, shame, of not being good enough, or their opposite: of being self-important or arrogant. Look, for example, at the hatred in your history as a reaction to homosexuality. Men who explicitly put forward their feminine side and showed pleasure in doing that, were considered the epitome of depravity. Limits had been exceeded that were supposed to remain intact. And why was this so? Apparently it was necessary to place men and women in tight boxes in order to suppress their true spiritual power and unique strength, because these stereotypes have all been acted out against a backdrop of the energy of dominance and power.

You all have had to deal with this suppressive energy, sometimes as victim and sometimes as perpetrator, so you may wonder why this attitude developed. You can look at the situation this way: the creative adventure on Earth, the entire cycle of lives and ever more lives, is a huge process of growth. It is a long journey in which you have experienced the extremes of what you might call “duality” in the world of form: light and dark, connectedness and separateness, male and female. You have traveled far from Home, and this is not without meaning. This experience has great worth and brings forth a deep richness in every soul who participates. But it also means that you have descended into the realms of fear, desolation, and oblivion of your true self. I am here to remind you of who you arein this descent into darkness and of your experience of both sides of the energies of power and dominance: victim and perpetrator.

Now is a moment in the cycle of life on Earth when it is time to return to a greater equilibrium, to more balance, so I call upon you to remember who you are. You came from a source of inexhaustible Light; a Light that is peaceful, yet flows and is dynamic, and which experiences and explores. There was no omniscient god, no dominant ruler who determined your life, but a completely free flow of Light that reveals itself both in the male and the female energies, and in different forms that all fit together so beautifully. Feel again the original bond between energies, the dance of the feminine and the masculine.

The female power is about connection and unification; it brings energies together. The female energy opens outward from the heart and receives with love and tender gentleness. In a certain way, the female energy carries the universe. It is the source of connectedness, of Oneness. Feel the power of this energy. She is present in all the diversity that you see around you: the people, the animals, the plants. Through everything flows the One: the mother, the goddess, the connecting and unifying energy.

The male power is about distinction and is creative in a different way; it creates individuals. In your soul you are connected, one with the other, and yet as an individual being you are also distinct, different, unique – one of a kind. Throughout the entire great universe there is nothing and nobody that is exactly like you. What a miracle! Can you, in addition to experiencing yourself within the One, the source from which you came, also allow yourself to be “otherness”, the completely unique magic of being you? Feel it, even though you cannot express it in words – it is the “you” within you. This is the creative power of the male energy.

The greatest joy in creation is when the One meets itself through the Other. If you are living in a male body you can marvel at a woman, her appearance, her beauty, the access she has to certain energies, the unifying forces in her. As a woman, you can marvel at and enjoy a man: his body, his strength, the protectiveness that can emanate out from him. The play between male and female becomes a joy and a source of creativity when both sexes naturally embrace their own strength and worth. Both are part of the one Light, eternally connected with one another. Yet, at the same time, there is that difference that makes everything exciting and adventurous; a voyage of discovery filled with potential experiences that deepen and enrich you. That is the promise of the play between the male and the female.

Today we are speaking in particular about the male energy, and I want to say something more about that. In the traditional spiritual way of thinking, it is often the case that the ego is portrayed as something that is bad and needs to be transcended. Certainly in the past, the ascending upward into the heavenly was seen as the ideal of true spirituality. But what is true spirituality? It is not just the connection, the communion, the unity that are central to spirituality, but also the ability to distinguish your unique powers of being an “I”. Allowing your unique powers to flow and thrive is equally as important as connecting, and this gives an earthly, manifesting form to the Light of your soul. It is specifically for this distinctive strength that you have need of an ego. But by this, I do not mean the ego as it has been represented in the masculine tradition. Not a tough and hardened ego that wants to distinguish itself at the expense of everyone and everything, that wants to amass power, that wants to rule over others, or over life. This view itself is a false image of what the ego is. In its true form, the ego is a focal point, a prism, for your essential I-ness, your unique power. It needs to be there and is a very special and irreplaceable part of creation, like a puzzle piece that makes you part of the larger whole.

Embrace that power! Say “yes” to it. Respond with joy to who you are; you are irreplaceable. And when you stand up in your true strength, you need not transcend your ego, your personality, and leave it behind; you need not deny anything in yourself. On the contrary, you become who you truly are. The Light of your soul descends fully into all your cells, your body, your entire humanness. Everything that belongs to you is illumined by that Light. Then you say “yes” to yourself – your entire humanness is allowed to be – and your unique self flows into everything you are and do. You do not need to hide your humanness; you do not need to be ashamed of it.

Imagine how the Light shines forth from its source through you. Allow the Light to flow downward by way of your crown chakra and then throughout your entire being. It is a white and universal Light, loving and gentle. It flows through all life and also through you. By way of you, the Light acquires a unique radiance, a special tone, a different sound. Look within for a moment and maybe you can see certain colors, hear certain tones, or just get a particular feeling; then feel deep inside yourself: “This is me; this is the mystery of me”. You are here to receive this mystery and no one else can do that, only you. Let it flow throughout your body, through your abdomen, legs, and feet. This is the integration, the fusion, of the male and the female within yourself.

Feel welcome on Earth and enjoy who you are. Do not be ashamed and do not feel guilty. Let go of old images of sinfulness. No one is served by them, not you and not the world. Let the fire burn and let the Light radiate! That is my deepest desire; and my deepest wish is for you to stand up in your own strength, on your own two feet. Let the seed of the Christ energy flower within yourself and be not dependent on someone else. I greet you all, in equality and in deep joy.

Jeshua

Translation by Maria Baes and Frank Tehan

Copyright © Pamela Kribbe – Permission is granted to copy and redistribute this article on the condition that the URL www.jeshua.net is included as the resource and that it is distributed freely. E-mail: aurelia@jeshua.net

The Dark Night of the Souls

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Our lives will represent the rising of the phoenix if we allow it. Out of the fire and ashes of our crash and burn lives, we are offered a new beginning.” ~ Taking Off The Mask

Much has been written and will be written about the Dark Night Of The Soul, and it can be confusing in understanding what it really is. There are many interpretations, yet five basic characteristics seem to be the foundation of a dark night…

5 Foundations of the Dark Night

1. Alignment With Authentic Self

The Dark Night Of The Soul is the process of aligning/integrating with who we really are; our true essence, our Authentic Self. It is the part of us that is Creator also, the essence that is in us and that we are also wholly in.

The Dark Night is our own, personal evolutionary curve of untangling and detaching from that which is unlike our Authentic Self. The more we evacuate what is not our Authentic Self, the more space is provided for its presence. We become more aligned with our true nature, our true direction and a better quality of life. The process of stripping down what is unlike ‘Who We Really Are’ has always been in motion, yet at much greater speed nowadays.

2. Decompression

Our detrimental emotions and their sources are energy packets, take up energetic space and put a choke-hold our on quality of life in many different ways.

Now imagine that everyone on the planet has their own load of detrimental emotions (and other non-beneficial energy packets.) That is a mega-load of negative energy that we are all wallowing in (picture a can of sardines) and why we can feel bound up, blocked, stuck and just not able to move thru life like we know we can.

When negative energy is exceptionally dense and packed together, there is not much room to move around and we bump up against each others’ negativity. When one person is in their Dark Night and heals just one negative thing, more expansive, fluid space is not only created for that person but for everyone.

It is like taking one sardine out of that crowded sardine can. There is decompression and more room in the can. So the more everyone gets onboard the healing train, the greater the collective evolutionary pace and the freer we all become.

3. Crisis In Consciousness

Dark night of the soul can be described as a crisis in consciousness, literally. It is the conscious experience of that which was once in the subconscious and/or stored in the physical body and has bubbled up for recognition. And that bubbling is not feel-good stuff and can create a cornucopia of crisis in our conscious life. These migratory packets of pain/fear will be screaming for attention:

Hey! Over here!
I don’t feel good. Will you help me out?

We have to deal with it or remain stagnant. Our subconscious and physical bodies are the storehouse of all memories, thoughts, emotions, collective subconscious etc. Lots of stuff is in there.

Anything that we have ever experienced lies in that great vault, and it drives our every waking moment. We just think we are in charge and that our conscious mind is directing the show. The conscious mind only receives direction and information from whatever has the greatest and most fluid access in any given moment.

It is either our Authentic Self or the subconscious at the wheel.

The Dark Nights help us clean out the subconscious so we are more in flow with our Authentic Self.

4. Exquisitely Excruciating

Going thru a dark night really, really gets our attention. Never a pleasant experience and usually brings us to our knees. If you haven’t been brought to your knees yet, then the first dark night is still lurking and waiting for a signal that you are ready to handle the contents of the broken egg.

Manifestations of a dark night can include myriad emotional and physical symptoms to numerous too list here. Simply put – if it doesn’t feel good on any level, the dark night is upon you. Well damn, you say, most everybody doesn’t feel great or is going thru some crap at the moment. Are all of us in a dark night?

Hopefully.

5. Not Just One Night

Dark nights may go on for one day or years. Do not fall into the trap of believing that it is a one-time event and then bam! you’re done. Some teachings may describe it as an extreme mystical experience that will set you free for all eternity and, again, that may be wishful thinking.

It is all about bringing non-beneficial emotions, memories and programs to the surface for recognition, love, cleaning and integration. Now there could be mystical adventure as we work thru the dark night, and usually is, but it is mostly about working out the mystical and subconscious in the conscious, 3-D physical life.

And the working out and working thru a dark night will thrash you around in sooo many different directions that your head will spin. By the time you get to the other side of each Dark Night you will have subtracted a lavish and overflowing amount of detrimental debris from All That You Are! You will be closer to integration with your Authentic Self.

After you have been thru an episode pat your self on the back and say thank you. Then stand back and wait for the next round. You progressively become better equipped to handle the next successive servings. And the very next serving will rise to meet you, respectively and equally, in your better-equipped consciousness.

Batter up!

Dark Night Of The Soul:

Simple in definition. Lifetimes to accomplish.
No worries though. We have eternity to work it out.
Also by Lia Love:

Energy Feeding: Dealing With Physical and Non-Physical Energy Vampires
About the author:

Lia LoveLia Love is a healing facilitator. The absolute bottom line in life is feeling good. There is nothing more important. We cannot experience joy, inner freedom and ultimately success without feeling good.

Lia offers integrative healing services that may help. Her services are global meaning she can work with you no matter your location. She would love to hear from you and can be reached directly at lialoveshealing@gmail.com or at her site Lia Love’s Healing.

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Healing Crystals

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Below you will find a basic list of accepted crystals that are typically associated to some emotional conditions, spiritual quests, or lifestyle matters indicated.

If you are comfortable and intuitive to self-assess, please do use your inner guidance to choose your crystal, it is the best direction you can find!

However, sometimes it can be challenging to hear our own inner wisdom, and a personal crystal recommendation – based on y our specific needs, goals and desires – can be very beneficial!

Crystals recommended for Physical Ailments

Abandonment: Unakite

Abundance: Citrine, Tektite

Abuse (physical, sexual or verbal): Amber, Selenite

Accident (prevention): Pyrite

Addictive Behavior: Amethyst

Aggression: Amethyst, Bloodstone, Orange Calcite

Aging: Rhodochrosite, Sodalite

Akashic Records: Aura Quartz, Titanium Quartz

Ambition (Dreams, Goals, Ideals): Dioptase, Howlite

Analysis: Chariote

Angels / Guardian Spirits / Spirit Guides(accessing): Phenacite, Seraphinite, Celestite, Aura Quartz/Titanium Quartz

Anger: Amethyst, Aragonite, Citrine, Howlite, Muscovite, Rose Quartz, Smokey Quartz

Animal Totem (Connection to): Stibnite

Anxiety: Aquamarine, Aventurine, Calcite (all), Citrine, Labradorite

Argumentative Tendencies: Grossuralite

Art: Rose Quartz

Attention Span: Chariote

Attunement to Energies: Herkimer Diamond

Aura (cleansing): Seraphinite

Aura (protection): Agate

Aura (stabilizing): Labradorite

Awareness : Phenacite, Seraphinite

Balance: Seraphinite

Bereavement: See grief

Blockages : See emotional blockages

Boredom: Quartz, Citrine, Garnet

Brains, left / right Balance: Labradorite – brings a state of equilibrium between the left and right brain.

Broken Heart: Chrysocolla, Chrysoprase

Burdens: Amethyst -helps you cope with negative feelings about your responsibilities.

Calming: Amber, Bloodstone

Centering (lack of): Aventurine, Bloodstone, Titanium Quartz

Centering (Spiritual): Aquamarine

Change: Apache Tear

Channeling Energy through the Hands: Smokey Quartz

Chakras: All crystals work on chakras. A patite balance all your energy centers. Green Fluorite is good for detox. Aquamarine removes blocks. Kyanite aligns the major chakras. Labradorite promotes the flow of energy between your aura and chakras.

Chakra (strengthening): Seraphinite

Change: Amethyst, Ametrine, Apache Tear, Dioptase, Garnet, Moonstone, Titanium Quartz, Turritella Agate

Childhood Experiences & Emotions: Rose Quartz

Clairvoyance: Chariote

Communication: Apatite, Aquamarine, Blue Calcite, Blue Lace Agate, Howlite, Kyanite, Purple Fluorite, Sodalite. Flint – helps you understand others . For Public Speaking: Amethyst and Turquoise.

Compassion: Turquoise

Concentration (poor): Amazonite, Aventurine, Petrified Wood, Pyrite

Confidence (lack of): Moonstone, Muscovite

Confusion: Apatite, Sodalite

Connecting to God / Higher Being / Energy / Goddess / Buddha / Jesus / Mohamed / The Tao /Universal Life Force Energy / All That Is: Amethyst, Black Onyx, Chalcopyrite, Tibetan Quartz, Tiger’s Eye

Connecting to your Roots: Black Onyx

Connecting to Spirit: Amethyst, Aventurine, Kyanite

Control (lack of): Moonstone

Courage (lack of): Aquamarine, Bloodstone, Garnet, Hematite, Rhodocrosite, Tiger’s eye, Turquoise

Creativity: Bloodstone, Celestite, Amazonite, Aventurine, Azurite, Black Obsidian, Bloodstone, Chrysocolla, Citrine, Moonstone, Rose Quartz, Sodalite, Turquoise

Crisis: Rose Quartz

Cycles & Repeated Patterns: Chariote, Moonstone Chrysoprase

Cynicism: Quartz, Grossularite

Decision-Making: Amethyst, Aventurine, Black Onyx, Citrine, Fluorite. Major life decisions: Muscavite. To answer life’s problems: Aragonite, Chevron Amethyst

Depression: Aqua Aura, Lapis Lazuli, Malachite, Smokey Quartz, Tiger’s Eye

Depression – Severe: Lithium Quartz

Despair: Celestite, Smokey Quartz

Detoxify: Apache Tear

Devotion: Garnet, Kyanite

Distance Healing: Tiger’s Eye

Divorce: Grossularite

Dreams (night time): Celestite / Celestine, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Red Jasper, Spirit Quartz help you to have dreams and remember your dreams. Dream interpretation is facilitated by Malachite, Kyanite and Smokey Quartz.

Dread: Smokey Quartz

Egoism/Selfishness: Howlite

Emotional Blockages: Amber, Ametrine, Moonstone, Muscovite, Spirit Quartz

Emotional Bubble Bath: Rose Quartz

Emotional Distance: Flint

Emotional Energy (lack of): Agate, Amethyst, Moonstone

Emotional Imbalance: Amethyst, Aquamarine, Blue Lace Agate, Calcite, Dioptase, Garnet, Malachite, Moonstone, Rose Quartz, Apache Tear

Emotional Poisons: Citrine

Emotional Trauma: Rhodocrosite

Emotional Upset (Mild): – Fluorite – Green

Emotional Wounds: Rose Quartz, Aventurine, Petrified Wood, Fuchsite

Emotions (excessive): Moonstone, Rose Quartz, Unakite

Empathy (lack of): Azurite

Endings: Apatite, Moonstone

Energy Vampires: Aventurine

Envy/Jealousy: Rose Quartz

Evil Spirits (protection): Stibnite

Expressiveness (lack of): Azurite, Howlite, Muscovite, Sodalite

Fear: Aquamarine, Aventurine, Calcite, Chlorite, Chrysoprase, Herkimer Diamond, Moonstone, Picture Jasper, Rose Quartz, Sodalite, Tiger’s Eye, Spirit Quartz

Feebleness: Kyanite

Feel Better: Chrysocolla, Tibetan Quartz

Feeling Down: Jasper, Amazonite, Calcite, Chrysocolla, Quartz Crystal

Female Energy & Qualities: Rose Quartz

Female Sexuality: Chrysocolla

Femininity (lack of): Chrysocolla, Moonstone, Rose Quartz

Fertility: Shiva Lingam

Flow: Amethyst, Apache Tear, Aquamarine, Charoite, Garnet, Smokey Quartz, Spirit Quartz

Focus: Phenacite

Forgiveness: Rose Quartz, Apache Tear

Fulfillment (dreams, goals, ideals): Amber

Friendship: Turquoise

Frustration: Rose Quartz

Generator of Pure White Light: Phenacite

Ghosts, spirits (removal): Meteorite Phurba Dagger

God (connect with): Black Onyx

Good Luck: Amber, Moonstone, Tiger’s Eye, Turquoise

Grace: Red Jasper

Grief: Amethyst, Apache Tear, Aqua Aura, Black Onyx, Picture Jasper, Rose Quartz, Smokey Quartz, Spirit Quartz

Grounding: Black Obsidian, Hematite, Petrified Wood, Smokey Quartz, Tiger’s Eye. Agate and Calcite put your feelings into perspective.

Grounding (lack of): Black Obsidian, Hematite, Jasper, Petrified Wood, Smokey Quartz, Tiger’s Eye

Guilt: Chrysocolla, Rose Quartz

Happiness (in the home): Black Onyx

Higher Self & Inner Self (Soul, Spirit, Chi, Life-Force or Essence): Apatite, Aquamarine, Fluorite, Garnet, Malachite, Moonstone, Muscovite, Rutilated Quartz, Spirit Quartz, Sodalite

Homesickness: Amethyst

Honesty: Emerald

Hostility: Chlorite, Orange Calcite

House (Selling): Citrine

Impatience: Aragonite, Spirit Quartz

Inadequacy: Rose Quartz, Sodalite

Indecision: Citrine, Aventurine, Titanium Quartz, Muscovite, Amethyst

Inhibition: Tiger’s Eye

Insecurity: Agate, Aventurine, Labradorite, Muscovite

Insensitivity / Oversensitivity: Moonstone, Selenite, Sodalite, Amethyst

Inspiration: Labradorite, Opal, Orange Calcite, Aquamarine/Beryl,

Intimacy (lack of): Flint

Irrationality: Grossularite, Kyanite

Jealousy / Envy: Rose Quartz

Karma (Speeds Up The Law of Karma): Smokey Quartz

Kundalini (Raising): Shiva Lingam

Leadership: Aventurine, Pyrite, Lapis Laz u li

Learning/study: Aquamarine, Calcite, Citrine, Howlite, Purple Fluorite

Life Path: Sugilite

Living in the present: Chariote, Dioptase

Loneliness: Spirit Quartz

Love (unconditional / spiritual / universal): Amethyst, Rose Quartz, Turquoise, Unakite

Love (Unrequited): Fuchsite

Loss: Aqua Aura, Unakite

Loyalty

Luck: Amber, Black Onyx, Moonstone, Tiger’s Eye, Turquoise

Making Music: Rhodocrosite

Male Energy: Shiva Lingam

Manic Depression: Malachite

Marriage Vows (renewal): Amber

Masculinity (lack of): Black obsidian, Smokey Quartz

Master Healer: Tibetan Quartz

Memory: Amber, Herkimer Diamond, Rhodocrosite

Mental Balance, Health & Healing: Amethyst, Aquamarine, Celestite, Dioptase, Garnet, Petrified Wood, Phenacite, Sodalite, Tiger’s Eye

Mind (lack of clarity): Celestite

Mind (unfocused): Fluorite, Labradorite

Motivation: Carnelian

Music: Rose Quartz

Negativity: Amber, Apatite, Aquamarine, Flint, Hematite, Smokey Quartz, Tiger’s Eye, Chrysocolla, Apache Tear

Negotiation Skills: Amethyst

Nerves: Amazonite, Aventurine

Nervous Breakdown: See mental breakdown

Nervousness & Tension: Amazonite, Amethyst, Chevron Amethyst, Chrysocolla, Muscovite

New Beginnings: The start of anything new, such as…projects, relationships, jobs: Citrine, Herkimer Diamond, Moonstone, Tiger’s Eye.

Nightmares: Celestite, Flint

Noisy Neighbors: Pyrite (on each of your window ledges)

Obsessive behavior: Spirit Quartz, Amethyst

Oppression: Dioptase

Over-Enthusiasm: Calcite, Copper, Fluorite

Panic Attacks: Green Calcite

Passion (excessive): Amethyst

Passion (lack of): Moonstone, Rhodocrosite

Past Lives (accessing): Dioptase, Petrified Wood, Spirit Quartz, Unakite, Apatite.

Patience: Emerald

Pessimism: Moonstone, Muscovite

Phobias: Aquamarine, Chrysocolla, Rose Quartz

PMT/PMS (premenstrual tension/syndrome): Chrysocolla, Moonstone

Post Traumatic Stress: Garnet, Green Flourite

Prejudice: Aquamarine, Chrysoprase

Protection (dissipating negativity) : Smokey Quartz

Protection (physical): Amber, Aqua Aura, Flint, Turquoise

Protection (home against spirits): Flint

Prejudice: Aquamarine, Chrysoprase, Tiger’s Eye

Psychic Abilities: Aqua Aura, Herkimer Diamond

Public Speaking: Turquoise, Amethyst ( See ” communication”)

Purifies Mind, Body, Soul: Amber

Re-balancing Earth Energy: Chrysocolla

Relationships: Hematite (attracts new partner), Citrine, Flourite, Lapis Lazuli, Rose Quartz (promote healthy, loving relationships), Chrysocolla (revitalizes relationships), Charoite (releases old relationships), Agate (promotes faithfulness), Rose Quarts (brings romance), Copper (liberates sexuality).

Relationships (Opening up for New): Shiva Lingam

Relationships (Over & Releasing): Chariote, Shiva Lingam

Relationships (revitalizing): Chrysocolla

Reiki: Herkimer Diamond, Smokey Quartz

Relaxation: Herkimer Diamond

Restless Mind: Moonstone

Restlessness: Copper

Romance: Rose Quartz, Turquoise

Sadness: Aqua Aura, Quartz

Self Control: Black Onyx

Self Esteem (low): Amethyst, Citrine, Sodalite, Spirit Quartz

Self Limiting Belief: Apache Tear

Sexual Abuse: Shiva Lingam

Sexual Healing: Shiva Lingam

Sexual Qualities, Imbalance: Ametrine, Apatite, Aventurine, Calcite, Celestite, Chrysoprase, Citrine, Dioptase, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Rhodochrosite, Tiger’s Eye, Unakite

Sexuality (Female): Chrysocolla

ShopAholic: Smokey Quartz

Sorrow: See sadness

Speaking your truth: Aquamarine, Kyanite

Spirit Guides: Seraphinite

Spirits (evil), Ghosts Removal: Citrine, amethyst, tourmaline, aventurine, fluorite, jasper, obsidian,

Spiritual Connection: Tibetan Quartz

Spiritual Balance: Amethyst, Quartz Crystal

Spiritual Detox: Shiva Lingam

Spiritual Development: Amazonite, Aquamarine, Celestite / Celestine, Moonstone

Spiritual Energy: Shiva Lingam

Spiritual Enlightenment: Seraphinite

Spontaneity: Herkimer Diamond

Strength: Hematite, Rutilated Quartz, Seraphinite

Stress: Also See anxiety or worry: Bloodstone, Chrysocolla, Herkimer Diamond, Rose Quartz

Study: S ee learning

Success: Aqua Aura

Superiority Complex: Turritella Agate, Apatite

Tactlessness: Chrysocolla

Taking Charge (of situations): Black Onyx

Tantrums: Muscovite

Teachers (Assists them): Stibnite

Team Work (in sports, business or any group): Flourite, Sodalite, Spirit Quartz

Tears (helping to shed repressed tears): Apache Tear

Telepathy: Flint

Temper (bad): Emerald

Tension: Chrysocolla, Herkimer Diamond, Rose Quartz

Third Eye Opening: Phenacite

Trauma: Garnet, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quarts (all for emotional shocks). Green Fluorite (for milder cases)